tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post5634122848728282563..comments2023-05-03T10:07:19.369-04:00Comments on A Paralegal's Life: Unemployed and OstracizedGrumpy Humbughttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02301207779489791751noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-42795888459317603832013-05-29T16:54:44.939-04:002013-05-29T16:54:44.939-04:00Wow! That's really crazy! I am sorry to hear t...Wow! That's really crazy! I am sorry to hear that.Carlahttp://www.howtobecome-a-paralegal.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-41251764027532432182013-05-21T21:46:18.707-04:002013-05-21T21:46:18.707-04:00What state do you live in currently? Just wonderin...What state do you live in currently? Just wondering where you are looking for a job and where you might considering moving to? I have been a paralegal in several states so I might be able to point you in the right direction.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-64191894922247787322013-05-17T12:39:39.907-04:002013-05-17T12:39:39.907-04:00If you are having problems finding employment in y...If you are having problems finding employment in your state and if you are willing to move, I would suggest Alaska. Especially Anchorage. There are several big and international firms as well as smaller size firms. There is a whole array of legal fields to choose from due to the state's diversity. You can find anything from traditional legal fields such as family law and civil litigation to mining and claims. <br /><br />Alaska is vast yet small and not for everyone, but if anyone needs a change you can find it on a map.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-63245048804035428562013-05-16T17:59:38.590-04:002013-05-16T17:59:38.590-04:00Wow, I am so SO sorry to hear that :(( I'm app...Wow, I am so SO sorry to hear that :(( I'm appalled. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-58718172652306152122013-05-16T13:14:47.350-04:002013-05-16T13:14:47.350-04:00The problem is that everything's below-the-rad...The problem is that everything's below-the-radar politics. None of the lawyers will stick their necks out for me, and I can't blame them. Senior Partner is extremely influential and very powerful, and he protects UnManager like a mother bear with a cub. The last associate who stood up to him over UnManager had to leave the state, take another bar and change practice areas just to find employment again. Besides, it may be against the law or in violation of the agreement, but I'll have no luck finding anyone to testify in open court on my behalf, since they would be destroying their own career.<br /><br />Like I said, this situation sucks any way you look at it.Grumpy Humbughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02301207779489791751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-85747522019413129272013-05-16T12:37:08.288-04:002013-05-16T12:37:08.288-04:00"The attorneys are all under orders to forwar..."The attorneys are all under orders to forward any requests for references to UnManager"<br /><br />The solution to that is to have them ignore that order.<br /><br />You really, really need to check that contract you signed, show it to an employment lawyer, and see if this doesn't violate it. <br /><br />And get those letters from the attorneys who liked you.<br /><br />It might be time to scorch some earth.Scott Jacobshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535287167298591797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-33855587450422768362013-05-16T10:24:40.449-04:002013-05-16T10:24:40.449-04:00The attorneys are all under orders to forward any ...The attorneys are all under orders to forward any requests for references to UnManager. Also, UnManager's boss, Senior Partner, is very well-connected and friends with most of the other well-connected senior partners in town. The entire thing is basically an informal, under-the-table smear campaign. Plus, my state rarely sides with employees against employers in anything. Grumpy Humbughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02301207779489791751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-33819664289850097872013-05-16T05:14:54.343-04:002013-05-16T05:14:54.343-04:00When they ask whether they can contact your previo...When they ask whether they can contact your previous employers, can you not point them to some attorneys you worked with, as opposed to UnManager? As an attorney, I'd prefer to talk to another attorney about how a paralegal performed, rather than some sort of office manager.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-36265384235300896402013-05-15T23:25:53.261-04:002013-05-15T23:25:53.261-04:00And here I was under the impression that such a th...And here I was under the impression that such a thing was not, in fact, legal.<br /><br />The terms of your severance package... Did it say anything about what may or may not be said regarding calls from prospective employers?<br /><br />Also, I might suggest obtaining letters from each of the lawyers who were shocked by your termination to give to potential employers and say "You certainly may contact my former employer - be aware that she will lie, and I have these as some small measure of rebuttal..."Scott Jacobshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535287167298591797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-65807832914587731622013-05-15T23:25:50.726-04:002013-05-15T23:25:50.726-04:00I know that you know that UnManager isn't allo...I know that you know that UnManager isn't allowed to give a negative reference. She can say that you worked there and the dates you worked there but if she says anything to get in the way of your future employment you can go after her & the firm. That being said from what you've written she doesn't play by the rules. But, for me, I give the names and contact information for the attorneys for whom I worked. I don't think I've ever had a firm contact my previous employer/HR/office manger. I just have them speak directly to the people for whom I worked.jenna!https://www.blogger.com/profile/16754411566357685542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3339149788672807731.post-36779959000749548512013-05-15T16:45:34.509-04:002013-05-15T16:45:34.509-04:00Grumpy - Dude, that completely blows. I've be...Grumpy - Dude, that completely blows. I've been completely out of the loop on blogs, etc. for a while. But I saw the link to this post on Twitter & had to comment. I am sincerely sorry you have to go through that. My husband went through similar issues in the past and it's beyond ridiculous that one person with a vendetta can completely screw you over. <br /><br />Know anybody who deals in voodoo dolls? :/Momalegalhttp://mom2tomtom.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com